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Why You Shouldn't Spank Your Children



Reflection of Real-Life Consequences

Popular dramas often mirror real-life scenarios where parents resort to spanking. However, these portrayals also show the severe emotional impact it can have on children, as highlighted by the personal experiences of actors like Andie Chen, who depicts these scenes while condemning the practice in real life.

Alarming Statistics

A significant study by the Singapore Children's Society and Yale-NUS College revealed that nearly 45% of parents admitted to using physical punishment on their children at least once in the past year. This high percentage underscores the prevalence of spanking as a disciplinary measure.

Shift Towards Awareness

Fortunately, there is a shift in parental behavior. Over the years, there has been a noticeable decline in the use of corporal punishment. This change is attributed to an increased awareness among parents of the negative impacts of physical discipline and the effectiveness of alternative methods.

Expert Recommendations

Experts in child psychology and mental health advocate against physical punishment. They argue that punishment should serve as a deterrent for undesirable behavior but doesn’t need to be physical. Effective alternatives include removing privileges, such as screen time or desserts, which can be equally effective in teaching lessons.

Preventive Parenting

By anticipating situations that might lead to misbehavior and managing them proactively—such as sticking to routine naps and meals—parents can often prevent the circumstances that might otherwise lead to spanking.

The Importance of Follow-up

When discipline is necessary, it should be followed by a discussion to ensure children understand the reason behind the punishment. This approach helps mitigate any feelings of rejection or resentment and reinforces the parents’ love and commitment to their well-being.



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